What Lubricant can be used for ?

Use " Eaze". It's kind of a desensitizing lube. My first time was today, and I was absolutely terrified, but when you use the desensitizing stuff, you can feel it but it doesn't hurt so bad. Just use the lube, wait a minute or two for it to kick in, and then have your guy try it. Go at your own pace, and don't do it if you're not ready!!