Dilemma Girlfriend or Ex in town?

Okay so I briefed what you wrote, cuz jeez that's alot! But the long and short way of putting it, SHE'S USING YOU!! I have had a boyfriend for 3 years and I ABSOLUTELY do not expect him to buy me anything or pay for anything!!! She's a mooch and lazy and is using you. Dump her ***. HOWEVER! Do not do anything with your ex past eating a meal together until you have broken it off with your current gf. That would make you a cheater, then you are no longer the sweet guy but rather the a**hole. Good luck!